Dating Trends: Clear Preferences, Consent and Connection

Dating Trends: Clear Preferences, Consent and Connection

Dating language can make an ordinary decision feel like a trend you need to master. You may simply want to meet without alcohol, protect time for your own life, or find someone whose values fit yours. Naming that preference can help you explain it. A fashionable label...
Meeting New People: A Practical Dating Plan at Your Own Pace

Meeting New People: A Practical Dating Plan at Your Own Pace

Meeting someone new does not have to start with a crowded party or a full calendar of dates. You can choose one setting, one manageable conversation and a pace that fits your energy, access needs and budget. There is no promise that an activity will lead to romance. A...
Dating After 50: Your Preferences, Pace and Practical Choices

Dating After 50: Your Preferences, Pace and Practical Choices

Dating after 50 can mean many different things. You may be returning after a long relationship, dating for the first time in years, looking for companionship or exploring what you want now. You may feel interested, uncertain, tired of dating or a mixture of those...
Communicating in Your Relationship

Communicating in Your Relationship

Communication in a relationship includes explaining what matters to you, listening and making agreements you both understand. It can happen through conversation, writing or another format that works for the people involved. A useful conversation leaves room for...
Having Good Character Traits

Having Good Character Traits

No one is going to be perfect, but it doesn’t mean that you can’t have good character traits. People can have both good and bad character traits. Some traits are seen as almost always being positive and there are characteristics that we look for in people when we are...
When You Want Someone to Want You: Attraction and Mutual Choice

When You Want Someone to Want You: Attraction and Mutual Choice

Wanting someone to feel as strongly about you as you feel about them can be uncomfortable. You may find yourself searching for the right message, a manifestation exercise or a sign that they secretly feel the same way. A useful next step is to make room for mutual...
Making Long-Distance Relationships Work

Making Long-Distance Relationships Work

A long-distance relationship can include affection, uncertainty, enjoyable routines and frustrating practical limits. Distance alone cannot tell you whether the relationship will work, and finding it difficult does not mean you lack commitment. Start with the...
How to Fix Karmic Relationships

How to Fix Karmic Relationships

There are different things that can determine if you can fix a karmic relationship or not. But most of the time when people look at karmic relationships, they wonder why anyone would want to fix them. A karmic relationship can be fixed but you have to be honest on...
Compersion: Sharing Joy Without Pressure to Feel It

Compersion: Sharing Joy Without Pressure to Feel It

Hearing that you should feel happy about a partner’s other relationship can be confusing, especially if your own feelings include jealousy, worry or uncertainty. The word often used for that happiness is compersion. It describes an experience someone may have,...
When He Says He Loves You but Does Not Want a Relationship

When He Says He Loves You but Does Not Want a Relationship

Hearing “I love you” from someone who does not want a relationship can leave you unsure what to do. The affection may matter to you, but it does not by itself establish a shared commitment. You need to know what kind of relationship, if any, you are both choosing. You...