How to Make Them Obsess Over You

Have you tried everything you can think of to try and get someone to fall in love with you? No matter what you do, you don’t seem to be able to attract them to you? The interesting thing is that you can use the Law of Attraction to get someone to obsess over you.

How to Manifest Love

You can use the Law of Attraction to make someone fall in love with you. The person has their own free will, of course, but if you send out the right energy to the universe then you can make them want to be with you. They will have a connection with you that is not breakable.

The universe will help to make this happen. You won’t get a person that isn’t going to be a perfect match for you unless it is a karmic relationship that is meant to teach you a lesson.

Using LOA for Manifestation

Here are some ways you can use the Law of Attraction to manifest love:

Make a Wish

Make a wish and tell the universe what you want. Figure out how to make them want you more than they want anything. Using the Law of Attraction means that you make a wish and you set clear intentions. When you do this, the universe will know what you want.

Manifesting a Soulmate or Other Person

When you are wanting to manifest love, you need to have a certain person in your mind. You cannot doubt that you want to be with them. You have to know for certain that you want this person by your side and you need to know that they are good for you.

If they are someone that comes to you, you cannot reject them and so you need to know for sure it is what you want. But, if you are just wanting to find your soulmate, you need to tell the universe the traits that you are looking for.

Are you looking for a certain kind of relationship? If so, tell the universe what you want and what you have in your heart.

Don’t Waste Yourself on Your Desires

Make sure that you know what you want. Don’t lie to yourself and don’t try to trick yourself into believing something that you don’t. You can want someone to want you and to obsess over you.

If you want to get your ex back, you can’t tell yourself that they are bad for you and you don’t need them. When you send out this negativity to the universe, you will get this back to you. Don’t send out mixed signals to the universe.

When you aren’t sure what you want, you need to figure this out before you use the Law of Attraction. You don’t have to tell the world your desires, just tell the universe and send it out in your vibration.

Imagine Your Love

Imagine what you want in your life. Take time to visualize what you hope that your love will be like. Close your eyes and think about exactly what you want. Visualizing can help you to know what you want and to let the universe know you have strong desires.

Think about what the person is doing right now. Imagine that they are calling you or texting you. Imagine that they are asking you to love them. As you keep visualizing, you will see that it gets easier to do. Send out positive thoughts of love.

Positive Affirmations

Positive affirmations are important to make the Law of Attraction work. If you want someone to obsess over you, you have to learn to be positive. This is what will help to make you more successful.

The thoughts that you have can help to control exactly what you are thinking and who you are. This is how the Law of Attraction works. Focus on what the Law of Attraction says which is whatever you put into the universe comes back to you. Here are some positive affirmations that you can say:

  • He loves me.
  • He will be mine.
  • They will love me deeply.
  • She is obsessed with me.
  • The more I love them, the more they love me.
  • They will be my boy or girlfriend.
  • They know I am their perfect match.

You can add as many positive affirmations as you want to the list. Remember that you need to be specific in what you ask for. Don’t ask for things in the future but say it as if it is happening now.

Stop Limiting Yourself

You need to make sure that you get rid of your negative thinking and that you are not limiting what you believe. You know what you want and you have to stop saying that thing’s won’t work out the way that you want them to.

Here are some things to stop saying:

  • I am wasting my time with them.
  • They will never love me.
  • I am crazy for trying to make this happen.
  • There is no way this is going to work.
  • They love someone else already.

Let Time Work

You need to be patient. Doing this can help you to manifest things faster. Once you allow time to take over, you will see that you can have them obsessing over you and getting the results that you want.

Let the universe give you what you want. Once you have this union, you will see that the patience was worth it. The universe will give you the love that you want when the time is right. Trust the process.

Don’t Be Overly Aggressive

You need to be careful when you are manifesting things. Don’t be aggressive when you do this and don’t obsess for what you want. You want them to obsess over you and not the other way around.

If you want someone too much then chances are that you won’t get to be with them. You need to want them but see that you don’t need them. Even though this might sound confusing, listen to what is being said and don’t miss out on it because you are breaking the rules.

Keep Believing

No matter what is happening, make sure that you keep believing in this happening. Everyone has free will but as you put your desires out into the universe, you can be positive and you will see that the process can work. The universe is full of life and as you wait for your soulmate or your love to come to you, be patient and don’t give up.

You can even speak your positivity as a positive affirmation to help the process move on further.

Make a Vision Board

One thing that you can do to be more positive and to keep your mind moving is to create a vision board. Make a board that shows just what you want in your life. Hang up pictures and quotes. Find articles to add to your board.

If you want to have love, you can make vision board on what kind of love that you want. Put pictures of happy people on there and relationship goals that you have.

If you want to get your ex back, you can put pictures up of them.  Use a song that you and your ex used to dance to and hang it on your board.

Be Thankful

It is important to have gratitude when you want to manifest something. The more thankful that you are the more you can make happen. As you are thankful and sending out good vibrations into the universe, you will see that good things can come with this.

Be thankful for all of the things that you have and the things that are going to come to you in the future.

Write it Down

Get a journal and write down everything that you want. Keep your journal close and as things happen, note them in your journal. If you see repetitive numbers or symbols that are giving you signs, put it in your journal.

The best thing that you can do to make manifestation work is to try a variety of these things. Make a vision board and then journal about it.

Act Like You Have Gotten What You Want

Don’t act like you are waiting for your love but act like they are already with you. Act like you have gotten the things that you are asking the universe for. Write yourself a love note or pretend that you are eating a meal with the person that you love.

Look your best and prepare your home for your love to come to your house. You aren’t being crazy when you do this but you are showing the universe you are ready.


You can whisper things into the universe that you are telling to the person that you are calling to your life. Say things like:

  • You are eternally in love with me.
  • Call me and tell me you want to come over.
  • Take me to dinner.
  • Be romantic with me.
  • Don’t forget me.
  • Fall in love with me and not someone else.

Don’t use pronouns but use their name to make this real into the universe. You aren’t the only one trying to find love, keep pushing.

Love Yourself More

You need to make sure that you are loving yourself to the fullest. Love who you are and believe in yourself. Once you start doing this, you will see that you are worthy to get love in return.

Be Who You Want

Be the person that you want to attract to your life. If you want someone that is being kind, be kind. If you want someone spiritual, be spiritual. Manifest the things that you are growing from and the things that you want.

Let Go

Let go of things that are holding you back. If you have an ex and you want to find a new soulmate, let go of your ex. Get rid of pictures and memories that make you remember them. You have to have inner peace in order to make love and manifestation happen for you.

Can You Manifest Love?

You can manifest love into your life by not being afraid of finding love. You cannot give up when love is meant to be with you. It will come when the universe is ready to give it to you.

Are They Manifesting You?

You can tell that someone is trying to manifest you by paying attention to what is going on around you. Do you see angel numbers, or do you keep dreaming of someone mysterious? These could be signs that you are being manifested.

Final Thoughts

Now that you understand manifestation, you can make someone obsess about you. Be careful that you are trying this with someone that you want. This is something that you want to be serious about. You don’t want to manifest someone and then find out that you didn’t really want to be with that person. Be sure of what you want and then start the process.

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